Is Steve being stalked by a crazed fan? All we know, he could have a dangerously obsessed fan on his hands. We all know about boundaries. Most people have enough sense when it comes to respecting boundaries but we are bound to find some individuals who don’t. To me, these stalkers are abusive… and if we don’t deal with them properly, they will continue to break boundaries time and time again.
How do you know you are being stalked? Well, it starts feeling uncomfortable every time the phone rings or you have to be out alone at night or worse, you start receiving death threats. You know he’s out there, somewhere and just that thought makes your skin crawl and your hands clammy. You never thought it would happen to you but you are being stalked.
So what is Steve doing? Curling up in a corner or packing up and fleeing to another part of the universe, after all he is in the entaintment business and that’s where he makes his living. I just spoke to Steve and told me what it’s like to have someone messing with you and what he is doing about it. It’s Not Fair!! Of course it’s not but what are you going to do? So far, they have increased security measures for the upcoming events, therefore, the passes to meet him him are given with NO EXCEPTIONS. But if the threats does continue and becomes a higher risk, they will pull the band from remaining tour. It’s sad and it’s all because of one individual, who is probably psychotic or a jealous person who feels good to know that he has the power to make you afraid. Period.
Because of the increased security measures, Steve has improved his situation and changed his behavior. He does feel better and safer because he took control of his own safety and took positive steps to protect himself. But nothing can absolutely guarantee your safety, especially when your Stalker is a stranger because their mental disturbances include delusions and abnormal characteristics, which they tend to have violent behavior. Lets hope this is not the case. To me, it’s like being at war. You are constantly waiting for something terrible to happen and in the meantime, the stress, the anxiety, the tension and the pressure that you are under are unbelievable.
As I said before, it’s not fair. And the Anti-Stalking website says it all: “Stalking victims don’t like to be called victims. They will say, “I won’t let myself be victimized,” or “I’m not going to change my life because I’m being stalked.” Sorry. Your life has changed. Forever. And unless you accept that, you will actually be helping the stalker. You are a crime victim. The crime happens to be stalking.”
It’s to hope for the best in Steve’s situation. It’s to keep in mind that just because it starts off as innocent behavior, it doesn’t mean that it will end there. You never know when the stalker might take it to the next level and I think this is what happened in Steve’s situation. He is now being more cautious and careful in all of his activities.
The bottom line is, you must have faith and continue to live your life. Nothing else matters. So learn to fight and learn to tame your fear because fear can be a friend. We all heard about silence is golden and it’s true but not in this case. Silence can be deadly! Sometimes, we must break silence to be heard. Share the information and keep people informed. Communicate…
For those of you who have blogs, don’t you just HATE it when you get on a roll and have a really good entry going and making your point and all that stuff… and suddenly, your computer freezes or you hit a wrong button or… well, this happened to me earlier. You get that error page that says you can’t get to where you’re going? And then you hit refresh hoping, hoping that your stuff didn’t go where the light goes when you turn the switch off because GEEZ, you didn’t save it as a draft (first time ever) and… POUF!!! It’s gone! Out where ever the lights went. And now, I can’t re-create it because apparently my momentum went where the lights go too… at least for now… Lets see what I can retrieve from my memory, which won’t be much but a little bit of it is better than none!
The Official Blog and the Site are dedicated to my nephew Steve Sauve. Seeing him succeed and listening to his music inspired me to create these websites about what is happening in his life. Steve is a gifted musician and a performer and it’s been a great pleasure seeing him grow from a small boy to the person he is today. I also feel privileged to witness his amazing achievements. His pursuit of hard work, strong devotion, proficiency and deep love of the arts make him a new driving force in the entertainment world.
Steve performing in 1987
I would like to thank all of you that have already been to Steve’s Concerts and for those that have tickets for up and coming shows.
Well… I can’t think of anything else right now and it annoys me. I feel as if a family of butterflies has taken up residence in my stomach. All I can say is, I will continue to improve this BLOG, as well as working hard on TOTALLY STEVE – THE WEBSITE because the bottom line is, THESE SITES are a work in progress… and I like it this way! Over time, there will be some fun and interesting things going on over here and I want ALL of you to be part of it.
“There is no such thing as a mistake, only new possibilities!”
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As you ALL noticed, I have a new blog with WORDPRESS, which is making my life so much easier. I know I haven’t been updating for centuries but I am now planning on getting back to my blogging ways. For starters, I haven’t been feeling creative for a very long time because I’ve been so exhausted. I was going through so many work changes and because of it, I had less time and energy. So what’s been going on? To explain my absence, I’ve been having a difficult time with all the transitions in my life. Take my word for it, transitions are hard, especially for me. I’ve been fighting off a bout of depression for the past few months that has slowed down my output big time. I really do think my brain was having a hard time catching up on all of these changes. In reality, I always hated changes and because of it, I had to do all the things I’ve never done before. I guess deep down inside, I was trying to frame these as “growing pains“. I know I really don’t have anything to complain about but that doesn’t mean I don’t get to cut myself some slack and finally recognizing that all of this was a lot.
You might say that this was the calm before the storm. All I know is all of this was an important part for me. It was the quiet and very messy part. It was emotionally exhausting and also very achingly slow and heavy and I was climbing up the walls trying to get away from it all. But I needed to do all of this internal crap to get ready for a bunch of ALL this new stuff that’s coming up. And I think, in fact I know, that now is the time for me to get back to the land of the living.
As a final and finally cheerful note, I am planning on concentrating on this blog and on this blog only. Everything else has disappeared because I am aiming to make changes that will make things easier for ALL of you, the fans.
This is not a goodbye but a see you soon…